What's with these super uptight boring chicks that don't like to try new adventurous activities like rock-climbing, surfing, horseback riding or other thrilling things? Some even act too stuck up for play fighting! Live a little! Why not let go sometimes and go to the arcade, play some paint ball or something? And who said those activities are immature? I have definitely heard people misconceive a person who does these things as being "immature". The most action they get is in the bed or in the gym. I'm sorry but the gym is boring and bland to me. It just sounds like relationships with those girls are probably just so boring! Life is too short to be so uptight. I feel like most of the chicks in the area I live in are this way. Seems I can only go do many of those things I listed before with guys because chicks are too worried about their hair or makeup and sitting, looking cute! So I guess when you're in a relationship you and your man just do the basic boring dates?! I know when things are brand new you don't want to do too much(I guess), but when you start dating someone regularly how about keeping things fun and interesting beyond the bedroom? Guys already seem to think marriage is just lock-down with no excitement and boring as hell. I know we don't want to sweat our hair out or what not, but that's what
hats, scarves, or certain other hairstyles are for! Live a little!
But back to that maturity topic...Do you know what maturity is? It is not about not engaging in active stuff or being so uptight you can't take a joke! Maturity is a number of things if you ask me, but I don't feel the fact that you like to still have those "big kid moments" makes you immature. It keeps life exciting! In my opinion, being mature is about making sure you have your priorities in order and that you know how to handle situations of your life logically or rationally. I'm not saying you know how to do everything, I'm saying you know how to adapt or learn from your mistakes. It has nothing to do with your age- though it should- but..
"some young fools become Old fools"!
...Just a Thought.
----What y'all think? Do you think chicks now a days need to loosen up?
Alana (aka Blondie):
ReplyDeleteye, you pretty much hit the nail on the head with this one. I'm feelin every little bit of this maturity battle espionage going on in the world today.
Society has these young minded chicks "by the balls" and shows no signs of letting go. I hope, for their sake, and for the sake of the generations to come that we can somehow make some kind of change as a whole, as a people... but you know the chances of that occurring are slim in itself
PSA... "push it faster, ese"
if you understand how I used that reference, you are dope as fuck.
- @MitchellDayle
Hey Mitch thanks for your comments! You make a great point! I always pray that when I have children, I will be able to instill in them what my parents instilled in me about the balance of having all my ducks in a row but still enjoy life. Today, man these teens seem way more impressionable than I remember being in my teenage years. I'm so baffled by it! As a people, man, I'm worried, period... And the PSA thing, I may be seeing the obvious rather than what you really mean so I don't know if I get the reference or not, lol.
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