"Every little thing that we do..."

Remember that song? "Between Me & You" by Ja Rule and Christina Milian? Well that song definitely just had me thinking about those people who are either always in someone's business or blabbing their own for attention! You know the ones; the ones who tell the world their business or social networks, or always fishin' in someone else's - trying to give advice but ain't handling their own business. The irony: they're either single(and have been for God knows how long), or in terrible relationships themselves!

When I'm in a relationship, I'm not telling all of my business. Except the happy stuff! Lol. But I don't even tell all that either because there's always someone who wants to kill your joy! They say "misery loves company," right? There's always someone who's going to try to bring you down or try to fix what ain't broken! And if people find out you have drama in your life, they are trying to find out about it!

EX: > "I miss my boyfriend , not talking to him fucking sucks ! 😔" < An invite for a prowling guy to swoop in!!

I cannot even count the number of times I see people on Twitter and Facebook talking about how they are with their significant other, but they're tweeting. So, someone like me will think: "Hmmm, so social networks are more important to you than giving your mate some attention?" Or how about the ones who are in bad relationships and are telling the world about it!? "Ugh, he can tweet but he ain't textin me? Oh I'm bout to be single again" Really though? There are still people who don't know I got divorce from my ex! Lol. Some things just not need be broadcasted - at least not right after it happens.

And to you single people who have never even had a real relationship...a GOOD real relationship...How dare you? How you all in your friend's business telling them how to act when you can't keep a dude/girl yaself for more than a month? Get outta here. If you're in a relationship follow what my man Ginuwine said... "It ain't none of your friends' business" <---- Truer words have never been spoken!!

However...if you're going to vent...might I recommend:

• Talk to someone in a successful relationship (preferably someone married)
• Talk to someone experienced! (most likely someone older)
• Talk to someone neutral and unbiased who will keep it real with you not just sugarcoat everything
• Wait until the situation is over and done with!

Handle YOUR business on your own!! Advice is okay to get of course. Take it into consideration, but these solutions don't play out exactly the same for everyone! Opinions should not be taken literally! But that's just me.

>>>> What y'all think about people who blast their business all over the internet? <<<<

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