We all demand respect...but why do we insist on being disrespectful? You know those people who take their bad day out on EVERYONE else? Or how about the guys who treats certain chicks like dirt, hit it 'n quit it, but then wine and dine others? If she's not worth your time why not just keep it movin'? Why kick some dirt on her first? Women this goes for you too! Why take advantage of the nice guy? Why let him do so much for you then tell him you're not really into him? These are the reasons people are afraid to let themselves go and open up! People just love to take one's niceness for weakness but steady preach how they are "bad b**ches", or got "swag", and all of this. Forget swag!...have some class! Stand out! Why are you dumbing yourself down to fit in, but then expect the best out of your partner? You are trying to get the most girls at first, but once you're ready for "that one" you're struggling. Why? Because all you know is being a dude with "swag" but no manners, no goals, no real accomplishments, treating chicks like concrete and steppin' on 'em! That's like having $1.50 trying to get Big Mac! It's out of your reach! How can you demand to be treated well ALL of the time when you're not dishing it out? Someone fill me in!
......Practice what you preach!
How can you want man with a job/good money, a car, a degree, no kids, no STDs, dresses nice, a gentleman, faithful, etc, etc,... yet you've been rippin' and running around all promiscuous, no goals, no plan except Plan B, and no goals "but you can roll a fat j though"!? Yet, the guys you're out here praising and dating are in and out of jail living with his folks, no job, no school, not even trying to fix his future, "but he tatted though"? They say "you attract what you put out" so why are you still actin' no good and mad when you get a "good for nothin' " dude? Someone fill me in!!
How can you want a girl who keeps her body right, has a job, no pregnancies, level-headed, and doing something positive with herself (etc, etc)...yet, you're chasing and praising the girls in music videos, talking about how you're trying to live like Rick Ross but you're living like Ferris Bueller? Taking too many days off, never putting in work! Or you're too content with renting out your parent's basement and not even trying to better yourself?.....Fill me in Pleeease!!
The person you are with should compliment you and vice versa! How can you as for the intangibles that you don't even possess yourself?
Just a thought..
